Alright this is going to be a post of me venting. I am going to apologize ahead of time for it, but I have no other way to vent so I chose this.
Yesterday, was absolutely horrible. I didn't think it was possible for someone to be so miserable and depressed that they would eventually bring you down and make you feel like crap. Well my people yesterday I figured this out. I was just trying to be a good friend because she is going through a really hard time right now with her hubs and the fact the he is deployed. She literally cried for two days straight. I was worried about her so i told her she could stay with me that night, but it just kept coming. I can only say so much but the same stuff over and over so i felt like no help at all. Also not to mention my hubs ended up being a jerk as well. The night that I went over to my friends house to be with her he decided he want to work on his car all night. which was fine, but I thought he would have played C.O.D since I wasn't there to get mad at him for it. Nope he didn't. So the next day when me and three of my friends were sitting at my house, he comes walking in with his friend carrying another x box saying they are having a C.O.D night, When I have already told him more than once that he wasn't having a get together this weekend because all of my friends were busy and it leaves me with nothing.. BUT he didn't listen. Of course, why would he in front of his friends. So you want to know what I did last night?? Ate applebees with two friends took one home, and came back to a loud house of hostile guys screaming a the TV. So i decide to go to the room to watch TV and come to find out they took my TV from the room to the living room to play on!!! who does that? So I had nothing, and just layed in bed and eventually fell asleep. On top of my hubs not listening to me, he also really embarrassed me in front of my friends. I tried to let it go while they were over but some of the things he says jokingly never come out that way. He likes to claim things as his our mine. Like My car Your car. My money Your Money.. And he does that around our friends all the time, but he doesn't realize it makes him look like a ass, and later on get chewed out by me his lovely wife. Because everything is ours, since the day we said I do!
Does anyone else have a problems like this? I sure hope not.
But thanks for letting me vent I feel a lot better an now maybe I wont be as harsh of the hubs.
2 months ago